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As I shared in my previous post, “Renewal of the Mind,” my desire is to develop a complete Biblical outlook on various aspects of life. This, combined with my passion for effectively educating the next generation, led me to do an inductive study on children and education from God’s word. This was an endeavor that took several months, consisting of word studies and cross-references, searching Scripture for every mention of children, families, and education.  In no way do I think that I have found every single one, and am on a constant look out for more.  But what I have below is a chart of the ones that I have discovered:

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From here, I developed “A Biblical Look at Children and Education,” which I would like to share with you over the next few weeks. This includes the important role that families play in the Bible, the value, nature & responsibilities of children, and the means and methods of education described in education.

As I set out on this study,  I was unable to find “education” as a topic in any leading systematic theology. Books that I did find that included a “theology of education” were sadly full of at least as much secular psychology as Scripture.  I am surprised by the lack of discussion on God’s design for education, particularly considering the importance placed upon this within His word, seen in the well known closing words of the SHEMA: “… And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.”  Dt 6:6-7

Join me here over the next few weeks as we overview these verses to discover God’s plan for families, children & education!

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May
19

A Call To Teach

Posted by: Kyla Gleason | Comments (0)

A Personal Passion

I’m not sure when I first developed my passion for teaching; its seems to have just always been a part of who I am. Playing “school” was my favorite make-believe activity as a little girl. My chalkboard easel got much more use than my Little Tikes kitchen or dollhouse combined. Oddly though, a “teacher” was never even on my list of “what I want to be when I grow up.” Instead, spaces on that list were reserved for the more adventurous careers of a missionary, a church pianist, a baker, or a juggler.

In high school, I bounced between dreams of careers in the medical field or communications/media.  Then, being the academic overachiever that I was, I was invited to a summer camp entitled “Economic for Leaders.”  The teachers of the economic classes throughout the week made what is often a boring or difficult subject come alive!  I previously had no interest in economic concepts, but while under the teaching at this camp, I found myself more engaged in learning than any other point in my previous eleven years of education.

I think the idea was to inspire us to pursue careers in economics or business, and while I certainly considered this briefly in the months following my attendance at the camp, its lasting impact had quite a different effect. Instead, the giftedness of the teachers at this camp awakened my childhood interest in teaching with renewed fervor and  increased depth.  It’s still been quite the journey to bring me to where I am now, as obviously I did not pursue the typical route to a typical teaching profession, and I imagine that I’ve still got quite the journey ahead fulfilling my dream of teaching.  And perhaps elements of this journey are topics for a future post.  But for now, I say all of this to make one point: I recognize that I have what is probably an abnormal interest in and passion for teaching, and really for education in general.

God’s Design

Seeking to determine how to properly “do” school, how to best educate the next generation, and understanding God’s heart for teaching has been the driving force of my studies and ministry for the last five years.  Recently, this lead me to eagerly search the Scriptures to arrive at a Biblical model for education (elements of this too will perhaps be expanded upon in a future post!).  And I thought I had come near to exhausting all the clear verses which discuss teaching, but this morning in my time with the Lord, my devotional book said to read Ezra 7:10 “For Ezra had set his heart to study the Law of the Lord, and to do it and to teach his statues and rules in Israel.”

This is a wonderful example of how we should approach our teaching! It should always be in this order: STUDY, DO, TEACH.  Other Scriptures affirm this foundational method (such as Dt 6:4-7; Mt 7:3-5); we cannot appropriately teach another something that we ourselves do not know or are not following.

A Call For Us All?

The concept of “study, do, teach” is certainly not new to me, but then it struck me that the particular discipleship book I was reading from was not written only for those interested in teaching, but was actually indicating that all believers should follow Ezra’s example.  I was a bit confused.  Then the Lord brought some more passages to my mind, and I’m becoming increasingly convinced from the Scriptures that God calls each of us to particular teaching assignments.

As I said, I recognize that I have an unusual interest in teaching and I’ve come to the (somewhat sad) realization that things relating to education often don’t interest others as much as me. But, even if you don’t share my intense enthusiasm for teaching, I hope that you can see from the passages below that you share this responsibility in the Body of Christ.

Parental Teaching

If you’re a dad, mom, or grandparent, then your job as teacher is explicitly commanded throughout Scripture.  Deuteronomy 6:7 makes this clear: “You shall teach them diligently to your children.” Pretty clear and straightforward. (Dt 4:9 extends this command to teaching grandchildren as well.) This is to be done through modeling, deliberate times of instruction, and simply weaving God’s truth into everyday life circumstances.  YOU bear ultimate responsibility before the Lord for your child’s upbringing and YOU are called to take the lead in their education.

Great Commission Discipleship

Jesus’ parting words to His disciples was a command to “make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you…”  (Matthew 28:19-20).

The Great Commission is God’s task to the Church, which every believer bears responsibility in fulfilling. We indeed all have a call to teach new believers the ways of the Lord.

Life in the Body

If any doubt remains that as a Christian you are in fact called to teach, here’s a final command from the Lord: “Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom…” Colossians 3:16

Do not misunderstand what I am saying: Scripture makes a very clear distinction between the form of teaching that we are all to engage in with one another and the office of pastor/teacher, which carries with it authority and is reserved for godly men (see, for example, 1 Timothy 2:12 & 3:1-7).  It is this office that James warns not many to enter into and which promises to bring greater judgement (James 3:1).

But, understanding the harmony of these Scriptures, we see that God desires us each to take an active role in the growth of our fellow believers.  This edification process is to be deliberate and occur as a vital part of our fellowship.  Titus 2 describes one example of an informal teaching relationship in the church: older women teaching younger ones to “love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands.”  This follows the command for older women to behave in a particular way, and thusly demonstrates the same “study, do, teach” model as employed elsewhere in Scripture.

A Shared Passion

Whether it’s with your children, or with new believers, or with fellow brothers and sisters, I see that Scripture desires us all to take seriously our responsibility to teach.  Sure, I may be wired with a unique passion for the subject, but I hope that you can join me in pondering how to be an active part of the life-long education of those whom Christ has placed in your life.

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Sunday mornings at our church can be a bit rowdy at times! As we gather to sing praises to our Saviour, a toddler may be heard laughing in the back, another child may run across the room to be able to stand by a special adult friend, a mom may help her son climb onto a chair to see the words on the screen, and two squirming siblings may need to be separated by their dad.  Some churches prefer to have the kids–particularly the youngest of them–in a separate location for the entire Sunday morning service to allow for adults to worship free from the many distractions that children can create. And I also agree that there should be times of worship and study reserved for adults–examples of this are even given in Scripture (see for example, Deuteronomy 11 and Nehemiah 8).

So one may wonder…what is the value in a room full of as many children as adults singing praises to the Lord?  Glad you asked.

Cross-generational worship follows the Biblical command

Psalm 148:7-13 states:  “Praise the Lord from the Earth…Young men and maidens together, old men and children! Let them praise the name of the Lord…” How are young men, maidens, old men and children to praise the Lord together without times of intentional cross-generational worship?

Cross-generational worship follows Biblical examples

Several Old Testament accounts record children and adults worshipping together.  For example, 2 Chronicles 20:13 says that all of Judah “stood before the Lord with their little ones, their wives, and their children…” for a word from God which then resulted in all present “worshiping the Lord” (vs. 18). Nehemiah 8 and Nehemiah 12 also records times of children worshipping God alongside their parents.

Cross-generational worship provides a time of teaching for the younger ones

Children undoubtedly learn from modeling. This is observed by all parents and those who work with kids, and teaching through modeling is encouraged in Scripture (see Proverbs 23:26, Titus 2:7 and 1 Peter 5:3).  As children spend 20 or 30 minutes each Sunday observing their parents and other respected adults worshipping the Lord, they learn to do the same.

I can remember attending worship one Sunday morning with my Grandmother as a young girl, and I can still hear her voice joyfully singing “Standing, standing, standing on the promises of God my Savior. Standing, standing, I’m standing on the promises of God!” I remember noticing the joy in her voice as she sang and realizing that the words were not just generic lyrics to a song, but was the testimony of her own life. As a result, this hymn has become a personal favorite as I’m reminded of the example of worship my Grandmother set for me that day.

Whenever I’m blessed to have one our church’s children crawl into my arms or stand beside me during our times of worship, I pray that they sense that same genuineness from me and that it spurs them on to seek a relationship with the Lord themselves. I also pray that all of the children would sense that these times of worship are something special…that they would see their parents and a room full of other adult role-models making the worship of God a priority in their lives. I pray that they would sense God’s presence in our midst and be drawn into their own time of worship.

Sure it may be a bit chaotic at times to have the little ones in the same room worshipping alongside us! But as the body of Christ, we have an obligation to show patience to each other, “bearing with the failings of the weak” (Romans 15:1) and to follow Jesus’ command to welcome the children (Luke 18:16).  May we never have the same attitude as the Pharisees recorded in Matthew 21:15 who became “indignant” at the children worshipping Jesus in the temple. Rather let us welcome the children and model for them the proper attitude of worship, training the child in the way they should go!


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Apr
08

Men’s Breakfast

Posted by: Kyla Gleason | Comments (0)
May 1, 2010
9:30 amto11:00 am

NOTE: This has simply been recopied from Joshua’s email, not written by me! :)

Saturday, May 1@ 9:30 AM, we invite all the men at The Bridge Church to gather together for a time of breakfast (scrambled eggs, bacon, sausage,  toast, and lots of coffee), fellowship, a brief Bible Study, and discussion. You may be wondering, “What is there to discuss?” Short answer: being a man!

It is our conviction that God’s design and intention for us as men (i.e. how we live our lives, how we lead our families, how we serve in our church, and how we take the Gospel to our communities) is clearly given to us in the Bible. The problem is that we, as men, are not paying attention. A part of the problem is that we are bombarded with a million different messages in modern media and advertising every day. As a result, we are easily distracted.The other part of the problem is that we are spiritually lazy, and we are not devoting ourselves to the study and daily practice of Biblical manhood.

So come and join us for men’s breakfast Saturday, May 1. This is a Men’s breakfast so no women are allowed! All men, ages 13 and up, are required. Don’t be a sissy and not show up!

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National Center for Biblical Parenting: Effective Parenting Tips

bnr-ncbplogoMaybe you don’t have the time to read extensive books?  Or maybe you’ve read them but would like some practical tips on a regular basis?

Two or three times a week, the National Center for Biblical Parenting sends emails entitled “Effective Parenting Tips.”   Each one tackles a new topic related to parenting, including infants through teenagers, as well as sibling issues.  Recent emails have included topics such as “What to Do When Kids are Annoying;” “When Children React with Anger;” “Obey First and Then We’ll Talk;” and “Teaching Through Decision Making.”  Each email is just several paragraphs, making reading them take little time, and application can be immediate.

The National Center for Biblical Parenting’s vision is to help parents meet four parenting goals:

  1. Be Practical
  2. Focus on the Heart
  3. Be Biblical
  4. Look for Adult Solutions to Children’s Problems

They also offer many other resources for parents and children that are worth checking out, but signing up for the daily emails are sure to provide quick encouragement and advice in the midst of your busy family life!

Click here to sign up for the emails, or just check out their website: www.biblicalparenting.org

See more great resources for your family!

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Contact Info.

Mailing Address:
Unit 256 230-1210 Summit Dr
Kamloops, BC V2C 6M1
Phone: 250-828-2512

Worship Location

We gather for worship every Sunday morning at 10:30 AM. You are welcome to join us at 1393 Ninth Ave. We are located across the street from South Kamloops Secondary School.